Cultivating the friendship and enjoying

If you plant a seed of friendship, pick a bouquet of happiness. Lois L. Kaufman

Friendship is a pearl difficult to find because you and I we must preserve.



While traveling on this dimension can not do without considering how important it is to cultivate the friendship that tells us that we are not alone, that we are human beings where our emotions and feelings we know they share with all its potential, with those beings who appreciate it, enjoy it and constantly feed back so that our life is full of joy, affection, love.

Webalia.com says that the greatest wealth that a man can possess, the most precious above all things, is friendship. This usually comes not from overnight, then have a friend (a) is the result of a patient and respectful attitude to life, where previously, a series of personal virtues that make a person worthy and generous able to give to others unconditionally and above all, loyalty at all.

Wikipedia tells us about that friendship (Latin amicus, friend, possibly derived from love, to love) is an affectionate relationship between two or more people. Friendship is one of the most common relationships that most people have in life.

It reminds us that the Greek philosophers, says virtue is a gift from the gods. Aristotle mentions three kinds of friendship: interest, pleasure and good, but only that which arises from the well deserves to be called friendship. For Cicero and Seneca, friendship implies harmony, goodwill and affection, "want and reject the same."

"Friendship is distinguished by modern high degree of autonomy attributed to a person, as they have in their hands both to initiate the relationship to break."

Thousands of pages have been written in favor of friendship, scope, relevance, ie, many of which are feelings, perception of their magic, which involves knowing recognize and cultivate, hence, not surprising that their evocations different according to the sensitivity of each person, how to recognize a friend, as it gives way to start a friendship, as it will feed.

It is known as written, initially establishing a mutual sympathy. Each one is on the other a number of qualities and affinities acceptable by you is nice they can spend time together. Mutual sympathy predisposes to more frequent meetings to continue chatting about the most disparate things. It goes well at the time they confide, that is communicated to another who has never told anyone because the subject senses that it will be understood. Solidarity is established. Everyone knows that you will have support in the other, in a hurry will not have much material assistance, which sometimes is known to be impossible, but moral.

Carolina gives us, that friendship is the marriage of the soul, which goes beyond a pleasant moment, friendship is the feeling of what the other person suffers, true friendship has no time, age, color, sex, or any barrier, the essence of friendship is unconditional support, no matter what happens, accepting flaws and enhancing the strengths of each human being.

Of course, in determining the scope, involving friendship is very important to clear your component, all that it entails, since terms are involved that determine their behavior, achievement, impact.

Just Wikipedia, bequeaths us about it, considered important contributions because they help determine what really represents friendship. The main component of friendship is trust. They also emphasize empathy and loyalty.

In every friendship is:

Trust and honesty: Facilitates actually speak and act as one thinks and is, minimizing the social prejudices that normally have. "A friend is a person you can think aloud." Ralph W. EmersonComprensión and empathy: Acceptance of the characteristics of friends, values, ideas, fears, successes, mistakes, and ultimately their way of being. "A friend is one who knows everything about you and yet you want." Elbert HubbardFidelidad: "A faithful friend is a powerful shield and it is, finds a treasure?. SiracRespeto Ben:" I do not need friends change when I change and nods when I nod. My shadow does much better?. Attributed to PlutarcoReciprocidad: mutual support in good times and bad times. "Do not let the grass grow in the way of friendship?. Plato

We would not finish writing without remembering some opinions about friendship bequeathed to us by great thinkers who have influenced our learning, such as Osho brings us, who need friends for being unable to be alone, to reduce the other to an object ... only the man who is able to be alone is also capable of being a friend ... but what you want to share is their need but their joy is their hunger and thirst, but the abundance of His love. When a friend and should not be called friendship, because it has taken a totally different dimension, I called "friend" ... has gone beyond the relationship because all relationships are one way or another, obligations, make you slaves and slaves to do is simply otros.Amigabilidad joy of sharing without any conditions, without any expectation, not wanting something to be paid, without even gratitud.Amigabilidad is the most pure love. There is a necessity, not unacarencia. It is sheer abundance, overflowing ecstasy. The moment you accept your loneliness, your emptiness, your friends are, it is significant, is real.

Finally, Peru's Gabino Frichs gives us a beautiful and sentimental friendship letter that says: I want to dry your tears, calm your pain, steal smiles and make the world we lost Eden. If I were a moon, if I were the sun, if road would lead you until you can always yours.

I will be warm when the cold comes. Candle light I will be your dream, the friend who accompanies you. Go from your hand. I'll be there for you.

Whenever the world bring pain, I'll be there for you.

I mitigaré pain and will always be there for you, to give warmth and shelter in my arms. As your soul is weak, mine will help you to endure, until at last you can beat the pain, until you learn to smile, my great ...

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